So it begins..........

Posted on: Sun, 02/15/2004 - 11:51pm
domesticgodess's picture
Joined: 08/26/2003 - 09:00

It may have begun and all I can say is it won't go far! The school store which the school has assured me is pn free.Why have a school store? This causes all kinds of problems for everyone but......mine is the PN thing which my son and his friends have insisted is NOT PN/tna free!!!:0I have spoken to the principle about this but now am going to this "store" to see for self.
Friday the big v-day party, anyone see where this might be going?
Yep!! A whole baggie of goodies was sent home with son filled with all sorts of things from chips to homemade cookies. No ingredients and no had eaten any in class.
As I am looking through this bag what do I see? A hershey hugs!
Now I do not get this at all, how hard is it to read? I know that these people can read and would if it were their child! These parents have had their children in this school with my child 4 years now so it's not a new thing. This I am sure is pure laziness and I am going to light the proverbial "fire"
under someone's a**!!!
I am so Mad [img][/img] any thoughts?

Posted on: Mon, 02/16/2004 - 12:12am
Anonymous's picture
Anonymous (not verified)

Hershey Hugs don't contain pn/n. They are listed *may contain* with regard to a nut (not sure which one). Does the school try to ban may contains?
At the *store* are they may contains or actual peanuts/nuts?
Why the heck does an elementary school need a store?

Posted on: Mon, 02/16/2004 - 1:45am
erik's picture
Joined: 05/15/2001 - 09:00

It seems that schools are really focused on food these days... I think some schools may use school stores for fund raising as well...
In my school, we had a school store too - there was no such thing as peanut free back then. With the rise in obesity and the lack of physical activity in children these days, I think schools should focus less on food.
The homemade cookies, etc is scary.. who knows whether they were baked on the same cookie sheet that had been used to make peanut butter cookies? Baked goods are a major danger.
[This message has been edited by erik (edited February 16, 2004).]

Posted on: Mon, 02/16/2004 - 2:25am
Gail W's picture
Joined: 12/06/2001 - 09:00

Quote:Originally posted by AnnaMarie:
[b]Why the heck does an elementary school need a store?[/b]
FYI: Our elementary school has a "School Store" that sells school supplies, no candy/food. It is run and staffed by the members of the "student government".

Posted on: Mon, 02/16/2004 - 2:27am
SueQ's picture
Joined: 01/22/1999 - 09:00

Hi Jenna,
You're post suprised me because Hershey Hugs are exactly what I bought my PA son for Valentines Day! He had mentioned a couple days ago that he hoped I had chocolate for him, and I hadn't thought to order any from Vermont Nut Free this year. So I went out looking for safe Hershey. I knew the kisses were safe and the only warning on the Hugs is that they are made in same facility as items containing almonds. Is your son TA as well as PA (mine is not)?
I do know what you mean, though, about the parties. My DS's teacher reminds the class before every party not to bring in anything with peanuts or peanut butter but every party (I'm the homeroom mom) I see at least one baggie and usually more with Reese cups, snicker bars - obvious Peanut items. His teacher is very good about it and when she sees it tells them to put those in their backpacks to take home. The 3 PA kids in the class get to get extras of something else instead so my son never takes anything peanut home. I don't worry about the "may contains", though. He just brings them home to give to his older brother.
I would definitely fight a school store that sold peanut products - that just seems totally unnecessary and a big risk. Good luck with that!
[This message has been edited by SueQ (edited February 16, 2004).]

Posted on: Mon, 02/16/2004 - 3:24am
domesticgodess's picture
Joined: 08/26/2003 - 09:00

Okay to answer sue's question yes he is both tna and pa but both just as severve but has never had the treenuts so not sure of reaction just know postive testing but do know that reaction to pn is severe!
That said I must also say that my earlier post was more of an "underthought"!
I went on and on bout the store and the v-day
and did not mention the pb sandwiches that have been brought in and not taken out when brought to the attention of the teacher.
That is a clear violation of the no nuts policy period.
With the store I think GailW suggested that we sell school supplies instead, in another rant I started awhile ago and I took that suggestion to the school and it fell flat,not a hot seller I suppose.So at any rate the school sells all kinds of junk crap to these kids and I want on a brain spue to the principle about children's obesity,stealing,cavities and all the other reasons it is not a good idea to have this store.Was assured at the time that is was pn tna safe and free but this is not the case and I know (just have to go confirm it with own eyes)that it is not , my son says it is not and another mother called and told me that her son came home with a crispy crunch
bar(all peanut wrapped in chocolate)!said he didn't eat it at school cuz of his friend but bought it b/c he's not allowed at the regular store on his own.
The thing that bothered me the most about the hershey's hugs is that it is a risk and to put such a risk right into the child who's most at risk's hands? uh-uh,not cool at all. I try not to p*ss on everyone's parade when it is celebration time but at the same time I must keep my child safe!
I just do not want to have to go through this again it's is tiresome and it is also the 4th year at this school why suddenly do I have to start teaching them again?

Posted on: Mon, 02/16/2004 - 3:39am
synthia's picture
Joined: 10/05/2002 - 09:00

We have a school[b]BOOK [/b] store(run by the PTA), there is [b]NO[/b] food.
Just like Gail W posted (we) sell:
Pencils-- Mechanical Pencils
Higherlighters--- Pencil Grips
Pens-- Book Covers
Folders-- Composition Books
Spiral Notebooks-- Filler Paper
Scissors-- Glue
Crayons-- Markers
Colored Pencils-- Cap Erasers
We also sell School Planners at the first of the year for those that did not buy them allready.
The school is grades 1-5
Jenna does your son have a 504?
What did the principle say?
Hi Gail, I look forward to your comments on Little V's 504 plan (comming soon!)
Love this site
Edited to add ---
[This message has been edited by synthia (edited February 16, 2004).]

Posted on: Mon, 02/16/2004 - 3:39am
Peg541's picture
Joined: 12/29/2002 - 09:00

Every single year that your PA child is under your roof you will have to continually teach others. It never ends.
As long as your child understands that he has to remove himself from a situation where there may be airborne allergens AND understands he may not eat ANYTHING handed to him by someone who is not you.
Unfortunately this is the way it is until things drastically change. I can tell you that my son is 19 and every single year of school, religious school, camp, scouts, anything he has done we have gone thru the litany of his PA over and over again.
We would like him to live, period, so we go through this endless process to make that happen. He has now taken over that role himself but I am always there on the phone or via email to support and encourage him.
And every time he has an issue about his PA at college his email to the appropriate personell is also sent to me so they can see he has his parents behind him every step of the way.

Posted on: Mon, 02/16/2004 - 3:50am
domesticgodess's picture
Joined: 08/26/2003 - 09:00

504? not knowing what that is but doubt we have that here in canada!!!
WE do have an action plan and it has been in force pretty well until now!
Have not had many problems until this year either with this school anyway.
Luckily for me my son knows and follows the rules and has kept himself safe and spoken up for himself but, when he doaes this and the food is not removed this is where I come in and hair will fly so to speak!
It is time for to once again go into the school and "clean" house and it is a pian and this is more a rant than anything.
While this is not a waste of time since it saves my sons life it is a waste of my time and everyone else's when this should automatically be done daily by the teachers you know?

Posted on: Mon, 02/16/2004 - 3:55am
pgrubbs's picture
Joined: 10/27/2003 - 09:00

I just had to reply to your reply. I thought it interesting, sad, and scary that this "education" about PA is ongoing and lifelong. Did you ever get tired of fighting? Of course, even if you are you still have to so that your son is safe. Did you ever not win? How did you handle it? What advice do you have?

Posted on: Mon, 02/16/2004 - 4:02am
synthia's picture
Joined: 10/05/2002 - 09:00

Jenna sorry I looked in your profile and could not tell where you are from that is why I asked.
Good luck with the school and let us know how it goes.
Love this site


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