letter to the editor...(not from me)

Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 9:15am
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Well, the son of one of the moms who confronted me(see my other post...my school saga continues)...well, he wrote a letter to the editor, here is the link...
[url="http://www.broomfieldenterprise.com/news/2007/apr/01/no-headline-01zlet/"]http://www.broomfieldenterprise.com/news/2007/apr/01/no-headline-01zlet/...
it's twords the bottom "my allergy"

I'd like some honest opinions, you know my school, my issues and here is his "side". He's entitled, I'm not bother by him writing the paper, but I am by what he said(again...are these parents, even of allergic children mis-educated??? Or am I out of line trying to protect my son??)

PS I never asked anyone to stop serving peanuts, remember, no bans for me. I did ask for a safe place for my son, that is all(at the basketball game, in the lunchroom, in his class).....but to these people, even that is too much.

EDIT, here is the letter...
Taking care of

my allergy

My name is Ryan Lee, I am a fourth-grader at Meridian Elementary. I think it would be helpful for (Mr. and Mrs. Organ) to hear from a kid who has a severe peanut allergy and has made it all the way to fourth grade.

I have heard all of the kids at school upset about the new changes in the lunchroom. I have heard my parents talk about their concerns. One of the best things my parents did for me was teach me about my allergy. Whether I go to school, Target, the rec center, the park or Coors Field people are there eating peanuts. That is the world, so it is up to me to make sure I am not excluded from anywhere. I take care of myself.

My parents have taught me how to watch for symptoms so if I touch something I immediately get medicine and help. As far as the schools, I have never felt anything but safe there. The teachers, staff and kids are always concerned for me. The lunchroom has always had a peanut-free zone for me if I feel I need to sit there.

I feel sad that everyone is forgetting about the fact that we want to make sure every kid is safe. Meridian has always done that. When there is a snack in the class, there are many times I just don't have any because I am not sure if I can

Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 10:02am
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I do know about your school saga and about the horrible moms who confronted you and were way out of line, but about this article, what is Ryan`s point? I must be missing it. I don`t see what he is getting at. He has learned to live with allergy, okay fine. Is he saying he objects to the way the lunchroom is now? (I remember they were going to make some lunchroom changes next year, right?). I`m not really sure what his point is. Another thing to consider is maybe he did not even write the letter. Maybe his parents did. To me, it does not sound like the wording of a 4th grader. Just my opinion. I cannot imagine my dd writing a letter like that. But assuming he did write it, I don`t really find it offensive. I take it to mean that he doesn`t mind if people sell peanuts at events and he doesn`t mind if he can`t have a certain snack in class. That`s okay. I wonder how much he would mind peanuts at school events if he had an airborne reaction from all the peanut dust in the air and he could no longer go to these events. That would be a different story, wouldn`t it? I know my dd minds when kids can have things she cannot have, but she accepts it (remembering that she has a food free room so this stuff is eaten outside or in the caf). She would never on her own write a letter like this though.
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Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 10:04am
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That was not written by an uncoached 4th grader.
You are not a mom who is not teaching her child
I feel they have done this because they know you read the letter to the editor
There are minor league teams who have peanut free or food free areas--why not professional?
He mentioned the peanut free zone--are these the parents who do not want the cold lunch tables.
Remember--they are not your fight. If the school sets the policy, then it is the policy. Focus on the goal--not the little people

Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 10:07am
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Okay, sorry chanda4. I did not realize that "Mr. and Mrs. Organ" was you and your husband. Now I see your comment added as "Chanda Organ". Yes, I would be offended. I`ll bet you anything that Ryan`s parents wrote it.
Edited to add: Look at this sentence. "If your son would ever like to speak with me about how to be responsible for his allergy I would be happy to do that."
I`ll bet you the parents wrote it. I cannot fathom a 4th grader saying that. It sounds very parental.
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Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 10:07am
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Hit submit without adding hugs.

Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 10:20am
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Soooo missed that Mr and Mrs Organ part--- Have you ever mentioned them by name? What is the newspaper's policy on pointing out children without approval--probably why they have your names in ( ). Depending on what you have said (permision by inclusion), it is my opinion you should call the editor and ask them to stop using your name due to the damage it could cause you son. Make it a 'for the sake of the child' argument. Be calm when you call. If you have used your son's name this is probably out the window unless you appeal to "I am changing my ways".
This is just my opinion,
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Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 10:22am
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Sorry, I decided to delete this post in case anyone from your school comes to this thread.
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Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 10:28am
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thank you for the post [img]http://uumor.pair.com/nutalle2/peanutallergy/wink.gif[/img]

Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 11:10am
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The letter is not logical. Consider this,
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I would never ask Coors Field to stop selling peanuts to all of the people, however, I am not going to stop going to see my favorite team play.
Is the writer suggesting that if someone with a peanut allergy is "responsible" that they will somehow be protected from a reaction at a stadium filled with peanuts? The writer assumes that his sensitivity to peanuts is the same as that of your son. You know from experience that your son could not tolerate this type of exposure.
Cathy

Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 11:39am
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I think what bothers me the most, from this letter and from the comments they made to me that night...they assume that all allergies are the same, like this boy is the blue-print for peanut allergies. and if my son is so sensitive, that he should remain home...his mom said that to me that night. So my son has no right to be at school, in the lunchroom, in the classroom, at a ball game, or at Target. I will shelter him when it's necessary for his safety, but school shouldn't be one of those places, it shouldn't. Especially if we can do so without a ban...but what choice are they giving me? If the lunchroom won't remain the way it is(cold lunch table, hot lunch table, peanut-free table) then the pb will need to be removed, I see no other solution....I was *trying* to do this without a ban, but they are giving me no choice. Can you imagine if it comes to that?? I don't even want to think about it, it sends chills down my spine! HUGS [img]http://uumor.pair.com/nutalle2/peanutallergy/smile.gif[/img]
EDIT and if it does come to that, in order to keep him safe from just the peanut butter...hwo the heck do we handle the other allergies?? We can't ban everything, I don't know what to do.
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Chanda(mother of 4)
Sidney-8 (beef and chocolate, grasses, molds, weeds, guinea pig & asthma)
Jake-6 (peanut, all tree nuts, eggs, trees, grasses, weeds, molds, cats, dogs, guinea pig & eczema & asthma)
Carson-3 1/2 (milk, soy, egg, beef and pork, cats, dog, guinea pig and EE)
Savannah-1 (milk and egg)
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Posted on: Mon, 04/02/2007 - 11:41am
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HUH? I'm confused.
Why would a 4th grader write a letter TO YOUR SON, TO THE EDITOR? Are the kids friends?
Chanda, my opinion is I would not engage with these people at all. Work only with the school. Be careful what you post here - post only what you'd want to see in the press. JMO, I see a lot of ranting and raving here and I can't follow you half the time, so not sure if you'd want everyone reading what you write.
I'd be pretty upset the paper printed a letter about my CHILD without my permission.

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