talking to my boyfriend about allergy

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I'm 17 but I've never kissed because of pa worries. Now I've got a new boyfriend who I'd love to kiss but first I need to explain to him the dangers of my allergy. How long after him eating peanuts is kissing safe and what is reasonable for me to ask of him?

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I haven't read any studies about how long peanut protien can stay in your mouth or on your lips but I can't imagine it is that long. I would tell your boyfriend what your concerns are. Ask him to make sure he brushes his teeth and maybe uses mouth wash prior to a date. I would ask that he not eat them the day that you have a date if possible. I don't think it is too much to ask.

Good Luck!
Maybe some of the adult living with PA can give you some idea's about what they do...

good luck!

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When you think of allergies, you might picture lots of sneezing and loads of runny noses. But unlike a mild allergy to spring flowers, a nut or peanut allergy can cause difficulty breathing and other very serious health problems. That's why it's very important for someone with a nut or peanut allergy to avoid eating nuts and peanuts, which can be tough because they're in lots of foods..i think you should tell him about your allergy..it's completely reasonable in your part,if he cares for you he will definitely cognizant your problem ..trust yourself

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Hey girl! I'm a severe peanut allergy gal myself, and I'm now 19...I've dated a few boys in the past few years, and I'll tell you first off that it is kind of scary trying to talk to a guy you're interested in (or interested in kissing, lol) about your allergy. But for my own safety, I always made it a point to bring my allergy up when I felt I wouldn't have it jeapordized. My suggestion to the guy was always: "If you eat something that I can't before you go on a date with me or see me, brush your teeth and use mouth wash." If you can, tell him that if he knows in advance he's seeing you that day, just don't eat any straight-on peanut foods and then brush his teeth and rinse with mouthwash for good measure. Guys may not seem like they would take the situation seriously, but I'll tell you from one girl to another that they can handle it. Sure, sometimes they'll forget, but just ask them right when your date starts what they've eaten that day. I hope I helped, and best of luck with getting your kiss :)

*on a side note, if you don't feel comfortable telling the guy about your allergy yet, subtly bring into a conversation "So, what all have you eaten today?" if possible..haha
-CM
-Peanut free since '92:)

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