I have a peanut allergy, as well as tree nuts, shellfish, and seafood. My DD is 4.5 and has never had any of these things in great quantities. She's never had seafood or shellfish and most nuts--she's had 1 exposure to peanuts (a PB cracker) and 1 exposure to hazelnuts (in a cookie). Neither resulted in a reaction.
Now she's getting ready for K and I have to introduce them to her so we can know if she's allergic or not... but the thought of doing so brings me into a panic. What if she has a reaction?
My allergist said she would blood test her if I wanted... but still it wouldn't be a great picture if she's had no known exposures.
So if you have PA or FAs and you have children, when did you introduce the things you are allergic to to them? How did you do it? Were you nervous at all?
This is really weighing on my heart. I know I can't live in fear, and I don't want to teach my daughter that... but I want to protect her from harm and in my mind, the things I'm allergic to = harm.
andreandanne-I can see this is of great concern for you.
I do not have peanut allergy-my oldest son does-but we went through exactly what you are going through recently with his younger brother.
We had been avoiding the foods son1 is allergic to and so son2 had never had peanut products.
We then learned that by avoiding for son2-we could in fact potentially cause an allergy for him later in life.
We also saw the potential for trouble down the road if he was at a friend's house or accidentally had peanuts somewhere or in Kindergarten like your daughter.
Son2 has never shown any allergy tendencies. But we did a skin prick test anyways. It came up very mildly positive. We did a rast which was completely negative. We gave him peanuts-and he was fine.
Honestly-before all of this, I just couldn't wait and gave him a small amount of peanuts just to see. He didn't have a reaction. I went through with the testing just to be sure. And yes, I was nervous with son1's epi pen on hand.
Keep in mind that your daughter "may" have had peanut exposure depending on how safe you've been with her food. It could be as simple as the ice cream store using the same scoop and not washing it before scooping her ice cream-or eating items that are manufactured in the same facility as peanut products.
You could always ask your allergist for a food challenge for your daughter-where they will give her small doses of peanut in a hospital setting.
Trust your gut and do what feels right. Moms and dads always know what's best!
Good luck-any other questions feel free to ask.
Ruth
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Disclaimer: I'm a food allergy advocate and mom of a food allergic child. I am NOT an allergist. My comments are based on my research and experiences. Please speak to your doctor regarding medical concerns.
Ruth LovettSmith
Founder of http://www.bestallergysites.com/
Your Food Allergy and Gluten Free Guide, and the largest Internet directory of allergy related companies, sites, and blogs.
Forum Moderator PeanutAllergy.com
Disclaimer: I'm a food allergy advocate and mom of a food allergic child. I am NOT an allergist. My comments are based on my research and experiences. Please speak to your doctor regarding medical concerns.